Flowers are synonymous with funerals and the obvious go-to condolence gift for a loved one. They can be sent to the bereaved directly or you can have the floral tributes sent to the funeral director so they can be involved in the service.
Regardless of this, flower arrangements might not necessarily be the ideal way to say you care for everyone. It may be the case that you know that the bereaved individual doesn’t have a preference for flowers; also you’re concerned they would consider it a waste of money and the money spent on them could go towards a better cause. Some people deem the sight of wilting flowers too similar to death in the days and weeks after a funeral. Or other than this, you may want to show your loved one that you care in a slightly different way!
In this blog, we will outline to you a couple of alternative gifts you can give a loved one during what is undoubtedly a very difficult time.
A blanket or cuddly toy
When an individual is grieving, a small amount of comfort can really go a long way and be really helpful for a great many people. A simple gift such as a high-quality blanket or throw, a comfortable pillow, or stuffed toy (particularly for younger people or children) which can be cuddled and provides physical as well as emotional comfort. You can even get blankets, pillows or cuddly toys with personalised quotes embroidered on them if you wanted to personalise the gift.
A candle
Candles are often connected with grief and mourning and if you are looking for a gift with longevity may be a better option than flowers. For some people, taking that time for reflection while lighting a candle is a good way to remember a loved one. There are a few types of candle holders or gift sets which you can buy that are suitably designed for someone who is experiencing grief. Alternatively, you may opt for a calming aromatherapy candle.
Home cooked food
Cooking for the bereaved is a really good and practical way to lend support in the days or weeks after a bereavement. Batch cooking a meal that can be put in the freezer and eaten at a later date is the kind of gesture lots of people really appreciate. In addition to this, you could send a basket of cupcakes or other sweet treats. Whatever you send them, it is important to write a condolence message with either gift.
Here at South Coast Funerals, we understand how difficult it can be to deal with the loss of a requirements are understood and planned into the funeral service in respect of your wishes.
We will always offer you a choice of all services that are available to you. To find out more, please get in touch.
