It’s important to take things slowly in the period following the loss of a loved one. Planning a unique and memorable funeral can help keep you busy and can be a helpful part of the grieving process. Without the need for spending large amounts on a funeral service, we have provided a list of thoughtful things you can do to honour the memory of a loved one.
Read A Poem
The right poem doesn’t have to be a long Shakespeare sonnet, often the ones that mean the most are simple but effective. Sometimes we aren’t able to find the right words, but a poem often helps us find the language to describe the situation and better understand how we feel.
Favourite Song
Maybe your loved one wouldn’t stop singing a particular song, or you have a song in mind that reminds you of them when you hear it. They might have even requested a specific song to be played at their funeral. You could play the song at the beginning of the ceremony or when everybody is leaving as a memorable tribute.
Video Tribute
Creating a video tribute of a loved one from home footage, images and even music can offer a beautiful memoir which can be shown at a funeral ceremony or reception. You could even include kind words from family members not able to get to the funeral too.
Unique Funeral Transport
If your loved one was more unconventional and like to do things their own way, maybe a different style of funeral transport will be a good idea. If they were a motorbike enthusiast they may appreciate a motorcycle and sidecar hearse. Nature lovers may enjoy elegant and environmentally friendly horse-drawn carriages which offer a dignified send-off.
Share Stories
Invite guests to share a few stories at the funeral or wake service. Reminiscing and sharing fond memories is a chance to learn more about a loved one. It can also give you the opportunity to reconnect with family members you might have lost touch with, and is a natural part of the grieving process.
Memory Board
A memory board containing photographs and some of your loved ones favourite items is a great place to help guests feel close to a loved one, like a personal memory shrine. You could provide labels or cards for guests to write their favourite memories and messages which they can add to the board.
South Coast Funerals – Funeral Care and Support
With so many different options for funerals out there today, settling on something meaningful and cost-effective can be a challenge. We can help you understand what options are available and what is best for your budget, whilst providing ongoing support throughout the process. Get in touch with our friendly team today if you require reliable funeral services, 24 hours a day.
